Wild Flower is a Brooklyn-based, queer- and non-binary-owned sex-toy company best known for the Enby, its flagship gender-neutral vibrator. The Enby 2 is the 2020s refresh of the original 2019 design, and in mid-2025 Wild Flower launched an Enby 3 with dual motors and a dexterity-friendly remote aimed at disabled users — but the Enby 2 remains the core mid-range model still widely stocked through 2026 at Refinery29's shop, Amazon, Pink Pony, and Wild Flower's own site.

Why It Matters

The Enby line is one of the clearest examples of queer-owned design winning shelf space at mainstream retailers (Refinery29, Free People-adjacent sites) on the strength of genuine inclusivity rather than a rebranded existing product. Wild Flower's continued expansion — the Enby 3 in August 2025, retailer growth through 2026 — is a signal that gender-neutral form factors have durable commercial viability, not just PR value.

The design is deliberately non-phallic: a flexible silicone wing roughly 6" wide by 5" long and 1.25" thick, shaped like a cross between a bike saddle and a stingray, with a central vibrating ridge running along the top. Three speeds and five patterns. Because there is no "head" end or "handle" end, the Enby works in modes no traditional vibrator does: humped against while lying flat, folded around a penis as a stroker, tucked into a strap-on harness, placed between two bodies for mutual stimulation during partnered sex, or pressed against any body part. The silicone is intentionally super-soft, and the whole toy is splash-proof (not fully waterproof), USB rechargeable, and ships in non-descript packaging.

Reviewer consensus is particularly strong in LGBTQ+ and trans-inclusive review venues. The Daily Dot's "a sex toy for enbies like me" first-person review highlighted the solo-play ergonomics — the curve sits between the thighs naturally without wrist contortion — and Elite Daily, Dazed, Nylon, and Dezeen have all covered the Enby as a meaningful piece of inclusive product design rather than a marketing category. The consistent limitation is power: users who want deep-rumble, high-intensity vibration will find the Enby's motor moderate rather than powerful. It is a sensation vibrator more than an orgasm-workhorse, and for couples play specifically it rewards slow experimentation over a quick-finish approach.

Price and where to buy: $98 direct from Wild Flower's site, $90–$98 at Refinery29's intimacy shop, and around $85 on Amazon. Colors include black and a transparent splash option. Includes a USB charging cable, storage bag, and instruction manual.

Materials are body-safe silicone, phthalate-free, with an unusually soft durometer that makes the wings genuinely flexible in use. Splash-proof rather than submersible. USB rechargeable with a 90-minute charge for ~1 hour of runtime.

The bottom line: the Enby 2 is the clearest "designed for every body" vibrator on the market — genuinely multi-use, genuinely ungendered in form, and priced in the reasonable mid-tier. For trans and non-binary users for whom most "for her" or "for him" marketing is alienating, it is a first-recommendation. For users who want maximum power, the Magic Wand or Le Wand Die Cast remain better picks. If Wild Flower's newer Enby 3 is in stock at a buyer's retailer, the dual-motor upgrade is worth the step up.

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Update — 2026-04-22

Initial entry — story first created.