The French brand Strap-On-Me has spent years making strap-ons that take the wearer's pleasure as seriously as the receiver's, and the Vibrating Multi Orgasm Bendable is its most fully-featured expression of that idea. It's a dual-purpose strap-on dildo with a bulb that seats internally against the wearer (for G- or P-spot stimulation) and a shaft for the receiver — and it can be worn in a harness or, thanks to that internal bulb, held in place hands- and harness-free.

Why It Matters

The "strapless strap-on that also pleasures the wearer" is one of the clearest examples of inclusive, gender-affirming product design in sex tech — moving strap-ons from a one-sided tool toward shared-pleasure devices. Strap-On-Me's explicit attention to trans and nonbinary users reflects a growing market segment that mainstream brands have historically under-served.

The standout is the motor count and the licking attachment. Three independent motors can run separately or together: one drives the shaft, one the internal bulb, and a clitoral "licking tongue" attachment stimulates the wearer's clitoris — all navigated via an intuitive remote with three modes and three intensities, so a partner can take the controls. The shaft also uses Strap-On-Me's bendable technology, holding whatever angle you pose it within a supported range so it follows bodies rather than fighting them.

Reviewer consensus skews genuinely enthusiastic, with a strong emphasis on euphoria and inclusivity. Testers describe multiple orgasms "as advertised," call out the high-quality, weighty silicone, and — notably — report that several trans and nonbinary users found it delivered real gender euphoria. One long-time reviewer said the internal bulb keeps it in place better than any strapless they'd tried in a decade. The main caveat is the bendable shaft's limited range (don't force the bulb past its supported arc) and a learning curve to keeping it seated during vigorous use.

Price and availability: it typically runs roughly $100–$150 depending on size (it comes in Small and Large), sold through Strap-On-Me's retailers, RodeoH, and specialty boutiques. It's USB rechargeable, remote-controlled, and waterproof.

Materials: body-safe "liquid silicone," non-porous, silky, and phthalate-free — easy to clean and harness-compatible. Use water-based lube to preserve the silicone surface.

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Update — 2026-05-28

Initial entry — guide first created.