The Lovense Lapis is a $139 (sale; $259 MSRP) double-ended app-controlled strapless strap-on — a flexible silicone dildo with a smaller G-spot bulb on one end and a 9.06-inch insertable shaft on the other, joined by a flex-adjustable neck. Three independent motors run shared vibrations across both ends. It is currently the only mainstream double-ended strapless strap-on with full Lovense Remote app integration, and one of very few queer-/couples-targeted toys in the Lovense ecosystem alongside the Diamo (cock ring) and Lush 4 (egg).

Why It Matters

The Lapis is the rare Lovense launch designed primarily for queer couples rather than the brand's longstanding cam-and-long-distance audience. By delivering three independent motors in a strapless form factor with full app integration, it sits between Tantus's non-vibrating silicone classics and We-Vibe's couples-vibrator lineup — a category that has historically been underserved by the major sex-tech brands. With Lovense recently integrating OpenClaw AI agent platform and adding Velvo, the Lapis signals the brand's continued push into product categories beyond its app-controlled-egg core.

Standout features: three vibration motors (at the bulb, mid-shaft, and tip) each independently controllable for intensity and pattern; flexible neck for angle adjustment during partnered penetration; ridged shaft texture for the receiving partner; insertable bulb for G-spot/P-spot internal stimulation on the wearer; full Lovense Remote app support for music sync, sound-reactive vibration, custom pattern design, and long-distance partner control. Compatible with Lovense's separately-sold harness for stability or no-harness use. ~11 oz weight, 4.72–4.80" girth on shaft, 4.7/5 rating across 70 reviews on lovense.com.

Reviewers and queer/lesbian-focused outlets recommend it as one of the few strapless strap-ons that delivers both anchored stability and meaningful vibration to the wearer — most strapless designs sacrifice one or the other. Trade-offs: at 11 oz it is heavier than non-vibrating silicone equivalents (Tantus Feeldoe, Strap-On-Me Vibrating Bullet Plug), and the app dependency means a phone is required for full feature access. Body-safe silicone, USB rechargeable, splash-resistant rather than fully submersible.

Available at lovense.com ($139 sale), Lovehoney, and Amazon. Lovense harness sold separately for users who want belt-anchored stability.

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Update — 2026-04-29

Initial entry — story first created.